so, the big debate is the real-live versus story-life comparison. among the people discussing this, we are all the type that enjoys telling stories about our adventures in life. i dont know if everyone is like this. i tend to think not, actually. in fact, the people in this discussion are my absolute best friends, and this may be one of the ties that binds us, as the saying goes. we all look for fun, excitement, and adventure in our social lives, and in reality there may not always be stories to tell. this can be a problem when you get in a relationship with someone who is not a major influx to the real-life stories, and/or is not a part of the story-life imagined beforehand. i am not saying anything about my current situation, (i dont want to get in any trouble here) i am just presenting the argument.